
I was just randomly thinking about all the dates I ever been on and thought to myself, “First dates suck.” Because, well, they just do. Especially if it’s with someone you just recently started to talk to. I thought, “Wouldn’t it be awesome if there was some sort of guidelines or rule book for 1st dates?!” and then a chorus of angles sang in my ear. I should write one to help those other people who hate 1st dates too!! So, here it goes…
Meeting new people can sometimes be nerve wrecking, let alone dating new people. As women, we sometimes feel the need to make the best first impression. We go out, get new lipstick, new dress, new shoes, so we can get the compliments we secretly crave (admit it, we do this, a lot) but, on a first date, he is also trying to impress you. And if he isn’t, leave. Quickly. To make sure your 1st date runs smoothly here are a few tips.
1) Do something the two of you can enjoy, even if it’s the typical dinner and a movie at least it’s a start and a good way to really get to know your date. Ladies, I honestly don’t suggest eatig chicken wings and ribs on the 1st date. Unless you want him to think you’re half caveman (just my opinion)
2) Remember that anything can happen at any time. It may be one of those days that anything that can go wrong will go wrong. Dropping your food, tripping over a crack in the street, burping REALLY loud in the restaurant… don’t make the situation awkward!! Have a sense of humor and attempt to make a joke out of it. If you’re comfortable with your goofy mistakes, he will be too.
3) Check your past at the door!! Talking about odd work details and that weird rash on your foot is a super turn off. The biggest 1st date NO-NO is talking about your past relationships!! Don’t do it!!
So put some of these tips to use the next time you have a 1st date. And if it didn’t work, tell me!! I want to be able to help. Check out some of our older post for money conscious date ideas!!
Peace and Lipstick